As you know, it doesn't take too much to get a man's attention on Facebook. The key is to be discreet about it, that is,
for his sake and yours. So if you're
attempting to get a man's attention on Facebook, chances are he's outside of
your social circle. So find out how to
go about getting his attention the right way with professional matchmakers from
Portland Singles.
It is strongly urged not to seduce a man on Facebook if you see him
regularly in person. If this is the
case, texting him or doing it face to face is the best option, explains Portland
Singles.
But lets say you have spotted a handsome looking man on Facebook, one
who you might have had an encounter with at a party, or you know him through a
friend... Well, the first thing you must do, is add him as a friend. Then, send him a private message with that
friend request. It can be something
simple, explains Portland Singles.
You don't have to write a novel or go into a lot of detail.
"Hey, I think I met you at a party a few weeks ago. I think you're friends with (insert name
here)." If the guy isn't
disinterested, he will surely add you as a friend and write back to your
message. His response will let you know
how interested he is, explains Portland Singles. If he responds to your message in a lengthy
way, then both of you can start chatting it up, because you're off to a great
start.
But even if he responds shortly, it doesn't mean he isn't interested in
you at all. After a few days go by, like
a few of his pictures or statuses, as this will alert him through
notifications, and hopefully, you'll get him to go through and like a few of
your own photos.
If he doesn't respond with comments, likes, or messages, then it might
mean he's not interested in you. Just
like in the real world, you should be getting the hint. So if he isn't interested, all you can do is
tweak your profile and make it fun and interesting to catch his eye.
Your Facebook Profile
This is by far the most important part when seducing a man on
Facebook. Your profile should be nice,
with nice pictures of yourself, explains Portland Singles. Of course, as a woman, you probably already
know this, but there are plenty of Facebook profiles that are very
unflattering.
It's very important to have pictures of yourself doing fun things on
your own or with friends, explains Portland Singles. The key is to look sociable and as though you
hang out with a great group of friends.
It's important to get rid of any picture that doesn't show you in a
positive way.
If you have any pictures where you look sloppy or drunk, get rid of
them immediately, suggests the matchmakers.
The key is to do things and post pictures of things the man you're
interested in likes doing, explains Portland Singles. This way you can really intrigue him.
Lets say for example, the man you're interested in likes kayaking. Then, go kayaking with a group of friends and
later that day, be sure to post the pictures of your fun kayaking
adventures. This is a great way to spark
his interests. You should also have your
friends comment to your Wall about things that are going on in life.
Never ask people to do it though--You want it to seem natural, like
you're fun to be around. And a great way
to get people to post on your Wall is to post to theirs, explains Portland
Singles. "Hey woman, lets get
together next Sunday for martinis. I
miss you and want to catch up."
Leaving a simple comment like that will have your friend posting to
your Wall in no time. And the more
comments you get, the more sociable of a person you will come off as, explains PortlandSingles. And this will make him
perceive you as a great person to be around.
Things To Never Do On Facebook
Although Facebook can be a great tool when seducing a man, it can also
be a bad tool if you do it the wrong way.
The worst thing you can do when trying to seduce a man is to use the
'Poke' function. If you use it and the
person does not respond, but you continue to use it anyway, it will be very
annoying. And more likely, you will get
unfriended.
It's like if the man was interested in you, he would've responded back
to your 'Poke.' But even so, you should
never use the 'Poke' function, as that's a very immature thing to do as an
adult on Facebook. A man will be able to
know you're interested in him just by the way you like his statuses and pictures.
Another thing you should never do on Facebook is write things on a
man's Wall that could be derived as sexual in nature, explains Portland
Singles. If you notice that this man
has a birthday coming up soon, never wish him a happy birthday by calling him
baby or sexy. This is one of the worst
ways you can go about getting his attention.
His friends and family will wonder who you are and why you're writing to
him like that. And if he has another
woman he's interested in, you are crossing the boundary. Nothing appears more desperate than a woman
calling a man baby or babe when they're not even in a relationship. To you, it might come off as being fun and
flirty, but it's too much.
The End...
Okay, to put everything into a conclusion, the best way to seduce a man
on Facebook is to have a great life yourself, explains Portland Singles. This way, when the man looks at your profile,
he will want to be a part of it. You
want to show him that you have a great life, and you do that by constantly checking
into places, going on vacations, and posting pictures of fun and interesting
things that you're doing.
If you never post any activities on your Facebook page, how can a man
see how amazing and social you really are?
But you must remember, if the man does not reciprocate, just like in the
real world, it's time to get the hint, explains Portland Singles. He's probably just not interested in you, and
it's time to move on.
But, hey, there are plenty of fish in the sea, reminds the matchmakers
of Portland Singles. So don't get
discouraged if one man is tickled fancy by you.
